Anwar White suggests reframing men as your inner child or little boys to stop feeling intimidated by them. Some men can be scary, but viewing them this way helps you set firm boundaries: tell them what you want and walk away if they don't comply.
Okay. Vanessa said how to not be intimidated by men. What do you mean, intimidated by men?
Who is intimidated by men?
Here's the thing. Some men are scary. I'm not gonna lie to you. And y' all know this because you're you. You have that lived experience. But the way that I think is really important is to understand that most of them are little boys inside. And I don't say this to minimize them. I just think that everyone is like.
Oftentimes is like navigating with their inner child. So I say this to say, when you think about that, it's easy to understand that these are little boys.
These are little boys.
For any of y' all that have nephews, are you intim intimidated by a nephew.
Or a younger cousin? That's how I think about them. And I want you to think about them in the same way.
When I tell you.
Once you start thinking about them as little boys, you be and your energy suggests that you'll be surprised, that they will show more and more their little boydom around you when you start to tell these men exactly what's up and what you want them to do and that if they don't do it, you're out or you're not going to give them life. They'll do that. Yeah, they'll do that.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
