A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White offering practical advice for talking to a crush when you're shy. The speaker recommends ways to extend brief interactions (thank you → segue into everyday topics), gives concrete prompts (mention errands like going to the grocery store), and emphasizes asking open-ended 'what/where/how' questions rather than yes/no questions so the other person shares stories.
That's, that's my advice.
Okay, let me give you some more tea, girl. Because a lot of you girls, we don't know how to, how to move the conversation forward after we like have that initial two rounds of conversation. So afterward, after he helps you, then you thank him, oh my God, thank you so much, I really appreciate this. And then you let him know, oh my gosh.
Like you want to, you want to ask something about like everyday life. Like, oh my gosh, after this, like, I'm going to go this place, let's say the grocery store or something like that. Then you ask him.
You say, oh, I need to go to a grocery store. Is there one near here? Then he can, he can tell you yes or no. And then you guys can start talking about everyday life. You have to. One of the things that is really important is when you are having a conversation with people, a lot of people will ask questions that are yes or no, right? And you want to ask what and how questions so that he will start, like, he'll have to share a story with you, right? So I give you like a where? Oh my God, where would be the nearest grocery store? I need to pick up some blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, right? Well, there's a grocery store here. There's a grocery store there. Oh, what one is their favorite? How would I get there?
Right? Oh, do you go there all the time?
What kinds of things do you do? Right? Open ended questions. A lot of people are like.
