Dating coach Anwar White breaks down first-date signs that hint at sexual chemistry: how he eats, whether he lets you win at games, if he talks with his hands, his dancing style. He's worked 15 years coaching Black women on dating and wants to hear what you've noticed too.
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Girl, if you want to know if a guy is good in bed, all you have to do is go on a first date with him. Now why am I talking about this? Because at the end of the day, I do not want you getting with a guy that cannot hit your walls, that cannot make you get that O that we so need and deserve in this stressful life. I don't want you to be faking those O's. I don't want you to be doing that moaning thing, letting him know he's so good when you know that he is not. Okay. Now, as a dating coach for 15 years and as your fairy godbrother, I'm going to show you exactly what you need to be looking out for when. When you are going out on a date with him. So real talk, real tea. The guys that are best in bed are poor men. God's a funny God. It's, it's the irony of it all the poorest guys have the best D and are the best in bed. So for example, if you go out on a coffee date with him and he gets tea over coffee, he's great in bed. If he gets a small, what do they call them? Talls versus a grande or avente, he's good in bed. If he gets a pastry with his coffee, it's because he's hungry and he hasn't had lunch, he's good in bed. Now if you go to dinner with him and he eats like a heathen and talks with his mouth full, he's really good in bed because he's going to eat you and talk to you with his mouth full too, if you know what I mean. Now, if you're doing a fun activity like bowling or pool or putt putt golf and he's teaching you how to do it or he's letting you win, girl, he's really good at bed, girl, because he's gonna let you win in the bedroom, if you know what I mean. Now, if you're going dancing with him and he's a wallflower, girl, he's lame. He's not gonna be good in bed. If he's dancing with hips more than the two step, girl, it's over for you. It's over. If you are having an in home date with him and he doesn't make a sexual move on you, girl, it's over. Because he knows that when he opens that Jumanji box, there's no turning back, you're done for. And he has the patience for it. Also, if he talks with his hands, he's gonna do a lot more with his body. If he's a 5050 guy, if he wants to split it down the middle, he's gonna split you down the middle like a wishbone. Girl. Also, if he's a musician, what did Toni Braxton say? He's gonna play you like a Spanish guitar. If he's a gamer, he is going to play, play, play until he wins. And winning means your o. And if he has ADHD, girl, he's going to be changing positions every 10 seconds.
Girl. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Let me know if you have any other ways that you find out if he's good in bed, all right?
