A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) offering blunt relationship advice about "situationships." The speaker argues men quickly categorize women (hidden/late-night hookup, ambiguous/middle, or 'wife' category) within the first conversations/dates; being in a situationship signals the lowest category and often means the man is using the woman for intimacy without commitment. The speaker urges women to leave such arrangements if they want respect and commitment.
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It says how to turn a situationship to something real that doesn't happen. That doesn't happen. Don't play yourself the girl. You have to understand men will put you in a category and you'll stay there and he'll know that category within like the first conversation, first date. You're either going to be and I, I said I was going to do a video about this. I, I, maybe I'll do it this week or next week.
They'll either hide you. This is especially true for the bigger girls, the darker skinned girls, the trans girls. Right. So like they're hitting you up late at night, you know, they just want to hang out with you at home. Right. Or you'll like be in the middle category where it's like, I don't really know her, I'm getting to know her, she has some qualities, but I don't know if she'll be a good girlfriend or not. This is how oftentimes it'll turn into either a situationship or a girlfriend situation. It just depends on if there's like a trajectory where, where you all are getting connected more or they'll put you into like wife category. Right. And those are the guys that like.
You never have to question, you're never confused. Yeah. So men put you into categories. So if you already in a situationship, he's already put you into the lowest category, no shade.
So if you're liking that category, go ahead, go off.
If you were my sister, I would tell you to leave immediately. That that man actually doesn't respect you and is using you for emotional support and intimacy.
