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Now 80% of those guys are not going to be ready for a relationship. So that clip went super viral where I was breaking down how harder it is to actually date just black men. For black women, it's seven times harder to just date black men. And if you're looking for a man that is six feet tall with a graduate degree and makes six figures who's a black man, it is less than one out of 250 or 35 times harder. So I wanted to break down why the majority of black men are not ready. And it's. It's just because at the end of the day, they're not as educated and they're not making as much money. And because there are more black women than black men, they have a lot of choice. So they don't have the incentive to settle down. So from an education standpoint, black women are actually representing 2/3 of the Bachelor's degrees and 3,4 of the Master's degree. So they're more educated than black men when it comes to actual salaries. They are making single Black women are making more than single black men. This is the only race where this happens. This is why you see so many black men who are the majority of those passport bros going to other countries because they're actually making more money in those countries for the women there than they are here. There's no other race where single women are making more than single men. The other thing that I want to offer to you all is for every 100 black women, there are 88 black men. And when you take out the married individuals there, there are 20% more single women than there are black men. Single black women than there are single black men. What does this mean? It means that men are actually self actualizing and getting to a more stable place in their careers later on in life. So it's taking longer for them to get married. The median age for a black man to get married is 33. Other races are 30 to 31. So you will wait longer because it's taking longer, because they're less educated and they have less money. And because they have more of a selection because there's more black women, they're gonna play the field because they can. This is why when I say that they're not ready, many of them are emotionally unavailable, but also financially unavailable. And that's the issue here. Don't fight with me. Fight with your mama. At the end of the day, here's the thing. I'm not anti black men. I'm a black mom myself. Even though some of the black men question that My work is centered around black women and making sure that they get the love they deserve. And if it means actually dating outside or dating everyone, so be it. I hope this helps to clarify anything. And yeah, let's date, y'. All. Let's date.