A short monologue advising listeners—particularly women on dates—to keep conversations balanced (roughly 50/50). The speaker recommends matching question ratios, keeping answers brief (about one to two minutes max, ideally shorter), and using concise, essay-like structure (thesis, examples, conclusion) for points. The advice emphasizes speaking to test a partner’s receptiveness rather than only listening.
Chapters
Someone said, I talk too much at times. Okay, if you talk too much.
This is what I want you to think. This is how I want you to focus on it. You need to make sure that these conversations are 50 50.
So the best way to do that is.
Make sure that that question ratio is the same. You ask a question, then don't ask another question until he asks a question. Make sure that your answers are a couple of minutes at most. I'm sure most of you have been on dates where men are talking for three to five minutes at a time. After about two minutes, everybody's eyes gloss over, even if they're interested in you.
Yeah.
Girl. You know how when you were in school, the.
You know when you were in school and they were teaching you about how to do an essay and you have your thesis, your three examples, your conclusion, Talk like that, but instead of a whole paragraph, make it one or two sentences each.
Yeah.
Someone said, just listen. The gag is that you don't want to just listen. Anybody can listen and he can just fall in love with himself thinking that he's falling in love with you.
For women that have something to say, intelligence.
Opinions, you, you want to talk. You want to see how he receives that, how open minded he is to you speaking. You can shut the hell up and listen to him all day long. But those guys that want to do that.
And will talk all the time don't give a shit about what you're thinking or how you're feeling. And you want to evaluate that when you're on dates. That's why you want to talk 50% of the time.
