A short motivational YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) advising single daters to maintain high standards by comparing themselves to Harvard University—being selective, not pursuing or begging for attention, and avoiding needy behaviors. The speaker contrasts Harvard's selectivity with for-profit schools (ITT Tech, DeVry) to emphasize not courting everyone or doing excessive outreach.
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Hey, girl. This is just a reminder if you're single and you're dating, that it's not supposed to be easy. You are Harvard. Harvard doesn't allow everybody to go to their university, and you shouldn't be allowing everybody to go into your university as well. You should have very low admission standards. And if you do, please know that you're doing it right, because getting into a relationship, the right one, is one of the most important decisions that you're going to make. What does Harvard do? Absolutely nothing. It lives its life, and I want you to do the same thing. It doesn't do too much. It doesn't call, it doesn't text. It doesn't plan dates. It doesn't do any of that. Yeah, I don't want you to do any of that as well. You're not ITT Tech and DeVry. Those are the commercials that you're saying that are begging people to come to them. You're Harvard, baby. You don't need to do that. Please remember that.