Tanya argues that dating in your 40s is harder than after 50 because people are still figuring themselves out. She suggests looking at partners in their late 30s or early 50s instead of your exact age range.
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Tanya or Tania. Is dating over 40 as difficult as everyone makes it seem? I think dating between 40 and 50 is actually a bit difficult. But if you are 50 plus, dating can be quite easy because at that point you know yourself so much more than in your 40s. In your 40s, like you know, after 30s, like you, you know what your life is, you kind of know who you're going to be, but it's like kind of a transitionary period. So you also have a lot of men that.
Are really trying to find themselves because at 40, you kind of know what your career is and you've got to figure out am I happy with myself or not. So a lot of dating a lot of guys in their 40s kind of sucks. So some of the, some of the tea that you might have to do, girl, if you are, let's say 43 or 45, girl, you might have to get with somebody that's 38, 39 or somebody that's 52, 53.