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Is it a good sign if he texts you to make plans? - Why does asking feel like grappling?

Name: Is it a good sign if he texts you to make plans? - Why does asking feel like grappling?
Uploaded: 2024-07-05T11:54:26+00:00
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Channel: Anwar White
Description: Anwar White answers two questions: whether a man texting only to make plans is a good sign (he says about two-thirds of men use texts for logistics…

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Anwar White answers two questions: whether a man texting only to make plans is a good sign (he says about two-thirds of men use texts for logistics, one-third for conversation), and why asking for help can feel like grappling (usually because you lack a history of reliable support).

Lira said. Is it a good sign if he only texts you to make plans?
I don't really think of it as a good sign or a bad sign because different people have different relationships with text messaging. So.
I would say most guys, maybe like 2/3 of them, just do it to figure out the logistics. Another third are going to be happy, kind of engaging and having conversation via text like that.
Evolving. EJ says. Why does asking feel like groveling? Because you never had a safe space and people to rely on.
So. And people never just did things for you. That's why it feels like that, because you haven't had people to be able to just show up in the way that you needed to. So you probably had to ask them two, three, four, five different times.