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Is it a problem if you're easy to get?

Name: Is it a problem if you're easy to get?
Uploaded: 2025-02-03T15:01:17+00:00
Duration: 1 min 22 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short informal monologue (YouTube/TikTok-style) arguing that being "too available/easy to get" is a problem in romantic attraction. The speaker uses a…

3 Feb 2025 · 1 min

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A short informal monologue (YouTube/TikTok-style) arguing that being "too available/easy to get" is a problem in romantic attraction. The speaker uses a comedic analogy with opossums and predators (playing dead attracts only lower-quality predators/hyenas) and critiques being 'low-hanging fruit.' The clip ends with meta-comments about TikTok cutting off and the short one-minute format.

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Someone said is it okay if I'm too available and easy to get? Yes, yes it is.
It is a problem.
It's a problem because if you're too. Okay here's the gag. If you're too easy and too available the men that are doing something, something they won't be attracted to you. This is why in North America the opossums are still living. They're like the only mammal that has like a pouch and is living in North America because when people when like their predators try to attack them they just play dead and then they just lose interest. The predators?
Yeah.
It is only the low hanging fruit, the hyenas that will try to eat you.
So if you want a hyena grow be too available.
Yeah. I'm a little upset that TikTok didn't wait until midnight to cut off but you know.
What can I say?
Got a lot of one minute man's up in here.
Yeah.