Anwar White says men should schedule one date per week, but booking two with the same woman in one week is a red flag. Accept the first date, focus on it, and tell him you'll decide about more later. Setting boundaries is hard if you didn't grow up with them, but it matters.
Nish says, is it a red flag if a man schedules multiple dates in the first week? You always want a man to schedule.
You know, every date, at least one date a week.
But your boundaries should disallow him from booking two dates with you.
If he's like saying, okay, we can meet on Monday and then on Thursday, you just let him know I'm totally available for Monday, let's see how that goes if we are going to have another date or not. But I'm gonna just focus on this first date.
Go from there.
Stay boundaried up. And sometimes that's really difficult because a lot of us didn't grow up with boundaries. So it can be scary to actually set them. But if you don't boundary well, it's gonna be very hard for you to date well. And if that's not happening, you're not going to get into great relationships.