A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) addressing whether men can have female friends. The speaker advises that it’s acceptable and that observers should note how a man interacts with women (friends, sisters, mother) as indicators of character and suitability.
Elle said, is it okay for a man to have female friends? Yes. But it's really important to understand how he interacts with those female friends. Your intuition will often tell you, is this a good sit or a bad sit? You actually want guys to have female friends because that means he knows how to act and treat women right. You also want to see how he treats his sister and his mother.
You want to see, how does he have female relationships. There are a lot of guys that just have guy friends.
You don't want that. You don't want. You don't want to be talking to a guy and he gives you a joke and then he punches you in the shoulder. Because that's what he does with all his dudes. You know.
He'S got to know how to. How to engage and deal with a woman.