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Is keeping the guy interested in us our job?

Name: Is keeping the guy interested in us our job?
Uploaded: 2024-02-27T13:53:05+00:00
Duration: 42 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White (uploaded Feb 27, 2024) arguing that it is not a person’s responsibility to "keep a guy interested." The speaker…

27 Feb 2024 · 1 min

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A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White (uploaded Feb 27, 2024) arguing that it is not a person’s responsibility to "keep a guy interested." The speaker reframes dating pressure as misplaced self-obligation, urging viewers to be themselves and to recognize when efforts to retain someone reflect deeper emotional wounds—notably inner-child needs to prove oneself (often tied to parental approval).

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Phil Bestina said, how to keep a guy interested. Not our job to keep a guy interested. We are not a freaking TV show. Our job is not to keep him on this channel. Our job is to be ourselves. And if he can't stay on our channel, he's out. Yeah. Yeah. So many people put pressure on themselves thinking that, like, oh, my God, I have to do all of this stuff to get a guy to like me or to keep him interested. No, not your job. And if you feel like it's your job, you're doing too much, and it gives me. We have some deeper wounds, like, we need to heal. If you feel like you have to keep a guy interested, you probably felt like you needed to prove yourself to your parents. So this is the inner child wound that we need to heal.