Short monologue from creator Anwar White discussing whether women making the first move in dating is ‘wrong.’ The speaker argues it depends on delivery, contrasts stereotypical male and female approaches, and uses a hunting/chase analogy (men need to pursue to fall in love).
Fei Fei said, I like black men, but I control things. I like to make the first move. Is that wrong?
I think. Well, it depends on how you make the first move, right? If you walking up to them with a pimp walk and you talking about, hey, baby, right? And you, you know, making the first move in the way that men will, then I'm gonna say, no, ma'. Am. No, ma'. Am. Pam.
Yeah.
That'S not gonna work.
That's not gonna work. And when you think about it, right.
Let'S pretend like dating is like the National Geographic Channel, right? And men are hunting you because that's what they do. No shade. If you. When you make the first move, it's the equivalent of you walking up to a lion and then this playing dead right in front of them. Do you know what the lion is going to do?
He's going to walk away. He's going to walk away because there's no chase he doesn't feel good about. Just eat. He want. He needs. He needs the chase. And no shade. Girl, most of these men, like, they're gonna have to pursue you to fall in love with you. I just did a video about the three stages of men and how they fall in love with women. They have to be able to pursue you.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
