Anwar White argues that sexual competence matters in relationships. He uses blunt metaphors to say partners should prioritize mutual satisfaction and that you shouldn't give unearned second chances just to be nice.
Someone said, skill is key.
I'm tired. I'm. Girl.
Can we. Can we say. Can we. Can we be honest?
Can we talk? Just us girls and some of the gay dudes in here. I'm tired of hearing motion of the ocean. Girl, you can't have motion of the ocean when you got a kiddie pool.
That'S not gonna do nothing.
Girl, if you just knocking on the door and you haven't come in, I don't care how much motion you got.
You just knocking on my door. You haven't even come in yet. You haven't hit any walls. You haven't made yourself at home. I haven't cooked you a meal.
Yeah, honey, the gag is when they start to slip out, that's when I'm done. That's when I got up, wrap my hair up in a bun, and I got. I. I have to. I got to get my pocketbook, and I'm out the door. When you slipping out or you getting soft again? You getting soft in the middle?
I said, okay. You not here to. You're not here to win. You're here for our participation medal. And I don't give those out.
I only deal with winners, gold medalists.
Girl, it's sad, because you know what? How are you supposed to get hot for that?
Let me know.
He's champions.
Girl, this is what we call in the gay community a dick downer.
So if that happens. Girl, don't. Don't give him a pity second chance, girl. Just go.
It's like. It's like you're tutoring him.
It's like you're saying it's okay that you can't do it. No, it's not okay. You're wasting my time and you're wasting my good punani.
I don't. I don't give this away to everybody.
This isn't a collection plate.
No, girl. Second chances, my ass. It's not okay.
Practice before you come.
Practice. Pop a pill if you must.
I don't care, because I have to get what? My rocks off. Ladies, if you don't. If you literally have not heard anything that I have had to say tonight. Don't let that man get off. And you haven't gotten off.
Do not let this man get off before you get off.
And y' all know how y' all need to get off, so make sure that that's happening first.
That's right, girl. What do they say? Ladies first.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
