Anwar White argues that most dating problems come from men's behavior, not women's flaws. He claims 80% of dating has nothing to do with you, and that single women are happier than partnered ones. Stop seeking validation through relationships and fill your needs elsewhere.
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January 17, 2025
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I think that sometimes people will make the fact that they don't have partnership in their life mean something about them. And I want to say that 80% of this dating thing actually doesn't have much to do with you and has a lot of a lot to do with these men. And they're not doing what they need to know they're not holding up their end of the bargain.
Yeah.
Do you understand that single women are happier than women that are in relationships?
So I think people think that, oh my God, if I get into a partnership, I'm going to be happier.
Statistically, significantly happier. No.
So now what?
We need to get to the point where we're okay having it or not having it. And I think once we get there, there.
You'Re going to be in a good position. Cuz here's the thing, ladies, here's a little bit of a cheat code.
When you have that energy where you can take or leave a man, do you know how many guys are going to be like, so into you because that energy is completely magnetic?
That.
Okay.
Now what? When you're not gagging on these guys.
Girl, that's the cheat code. When you can take them or leave them. Girl, when you get a text from a guy and your punani doesn't do a flip, girl, you're done. You're everything. You've won.
Right? Bradley has said, my mom has that energy. These men don't know what to do. Girl. That is. That's the energy that you want here. This energy about, oh, I don't have a man. Oh, I don't have partnership, girl. And I'm going to say this with love and respect. It's going to bring and breed a desperate energy and it will start attracting predatory men because they're going to smell the desperation for your partnership on you from a mile away.
Yeah.
Girl, stop caring.
Who cares?
Here's the thing.
I understand that this means something to you and so many women out there. You've got to figure out what you're making it mean for you.
That is your work.
Is it because.
You never felt chosen from your parents or prioritized or cherished or adored? And so we're looking to fill that void with a man. Are we looking for validation from my friend group who have men? And I want to be like them and I want to relate to them better. So I want a man too.
You've got to figure out what you're making it mean. And then we have to find other ways to fill those voids without a man.
Yeah.
Yeah, honey.
When you've never been chosen or prioritized, they're gonna smell that. And you know what they do? They're going to make you feel that way for a couple, a good two or three weeks. And then when they feel like they got you, girl, they're going to pull a rug right under you.
Don't do that.
So.
That'S what you got to figure out, girl. And once you do that, you're going to be golden.
Okay?
Okay, honey. I had to cross my legs for that one, honey.
Because no shade, a lot of us are still dating. Dating for validation from our mother and our friends. Can't do that.
