A short YouTube monologue (by Anwar White) advising women to use "rotational" or "Olympic" dating: maintain multiple active prospects (a gold, silver, and bronze), keep dating until you fill that roster, and treat prospects like college applications (reach, target, safety schools). The speaker urges persistence and warns against aiming only for top-tier matches.
Nia said, do you recommend rotational dating? I sure do.
I sure do. I call it Olympic dating. You want to have a gold medalist, a silver medalist, and a bronze medalist at all times. And if you don't, you not. Don't stop dating till you get them. Don't stop till you get enough dating Olympians, like my mentor Michael said.
Okay, ladies, you're gonna have to rotationally date.
Okay? Some of the girls are like, I can't even get one. I think it's because y' all are going for the gold all the time.
I think that you have to think about it like you're applying to college. You have some reach schools.
Let's be honest. Some of the guys we're talking to might be a little bit of a reach. No shade. Some target schools, guys that are kind of on your level, and then some safety schools.
Those guys that you might not be feeling totally, but showing up and doing everything that they need for you. This is how you fill up this roster, girl.
Y' all are trying to apply to Harvard, Princeton, Stanford, Penn, Yale. And then getting mad because you're not getting into any of these schools. And if you do get into a school, you're not getting any scholarships, so you can't go.
This is how you date. This is how I want you to date, okay?
