A brief, candid YouTube monologue by a single speaker offering humorous, practical advice to women about intimate encounters. The speaker recounts personal anecdotes about managing mismatched partners (using positioning and ‘mutual M’/make-outs), emphasizes self-worth and sexual confidence, and closes with a playful moral using pop-culture metaphor (Frozen) to ‘let it go.’
Chapters
Sometimes. And so this is. This was my secret, girl. Sometimes when it was like. It was like, coming out a little bit, what I would do is I would put my arms around them so that they couldn't. Because they were trying to thrust. Because when you're short, they feel like I gotta thrust more so that they go back more. So then it's like coming out more. So I used to put my arms around them, and then I would try to work it because I, you know, my punani knew the length, right? So I would. I would know exactly how to work it. Girl, it was. Girl, it was. It was still falling out, girl. That's how small it was.
So after a while. So here's the thing, girl. After a while, you know what you do? Mutual M, girl. Mutual M. Make out. And then, you know what you say, okay, I got an early day at work tomorrow. I'm gonna go.
I'm gonna go.
This was fun.
Had a great time.
Same. Same, smart. Had a great time.
So moral of the story.
Don'T be moana, girl. Don't be a moana.
Yeah.
You got to be like those frozen girls, and you gotta let it go.
You know?
So I hope that this has helped somebody. I don't want the same thing that happened to me.
Happen to you.
You hear me?
Because then you feel bad about yourself, then you start to question your own punani, and you're like, do I still got it? Like.
Do I?
And in those moments.
You gotta. You gotta find someone that's on your roster in your black book.
To remind yourself.
That your punani is still. Still top tier.
Yeah. Because you know, it wasn't me. It wasn't me.
Someone said, thank you for sharing your testimony with the congregation. You're so welcome. You're so welcome. I felt like somebody needed to hear this today.
