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Ladies, you can wear your hair however you want to wear it!

Name: Ladies, you can wear your hair however you want to wear it!
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:44:41.085263
Duration: 2 min 4 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short monologue (YouTube video) by a single speaker discussing perceptions and stereotypes that different women's hairstyles attract different kinds of…

7 Dec 2025 · 2 min

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A short monologue (YouTube video) by a single speaker discussing perceptions and stereotypes that different women's hairstyles attract different kinds of men. The speaker gives concrete, conversational examples (e.g., pixie cut, finger waves, locks/sisterlocks, weave, perm, bob) and assigns stereotyped male audiences to each.

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Kishanda said, how do you feel about the way we wear our hair? You get to wear your hair. What? However you want to wear it.
Okay.
But let me know what hair you're giving and then I can tell you who's really checking for you. Because you will attract different kinds of men with hair. Different kinds of hair. Okay?
For example, if you have.
A pixie cut.
If you have finger waves, you attracting the Motowns.
Men that are 55 plus. Girl.
You got locks. You attracting the hoteps and you attracting those white men. And if they're sisterlocks, girl, you attracting the pale white men.
Yes. For all the motowns.
Weave, you're attracting the blacks. The black men.
They always say that they want natural hair. I love you all to death. It is a mother effing lie. They want you with the bust down, they want you with the weave.
They want you with the lace front.
If you want a conservative black man, they. They want your hair permed.
Someone said a bob. Girl, you gonna deal. Girl, you're gonna deal with the bisexual men.
Gay men love the bob girl.