A short monologue advising viewers about the "love scarcity mindset": how self-doubt and feelings of not being "enough" lead people to settle in subpar relationships, form an "upper limit of love," and sabotage higher-quality partnerships. The speaker frames this as a common client issue and offers dating coaching as a solution.
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But wouldn't you rather have people wonder why you're single than have people wonder why you're with him 100%, but not for the reason that you think so. When you're in a relationship that doesn't fully serve you, this is like the epitome of having a love scarcity mindset. And a love scarcity mindset is all about having self doubt and not feeling like you're something enough. Not skinny enough, not smart enough, not white enough, not cool enough, whatever it might be, not something enough. But the issue is when you don't feel like you are enough, you also won't feel like you are worthy of being enough for a healthy amazing relationship. So you get stuck and you settle for these relationships that are at a level 7, or excuse me, a level 6 out of 10. And when you're in those relationships for a long time, you will actually trick yourself and actually create a mindset, what I call an upper limit of love. So that all you believe is that you are the best and the top that you can be is at a level six in love. And so when a level nine or a level ten guy comes, you can't even believe it. It's so out of your realm that it doesn't feel good, it doesn't feel natural and you will self sabotage, you will push it away. This is the danger of being in a relationship that doesn't fully serve you and having the love scarcity mindset. If you want to learn how to get out of that. Because many of my clients do have this and that is my value add for them as a dating coach for 13 years. Definitely book a call with me. I hope this helps.
