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Matching Energies

Name: Matching Energies
Uploaded: 2022-11-01T13:54:57+00:00
Duration: 58 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short spoken piece advising that 'matching energies' does not create real connection in dating or relationships. The speaker argues that matching…

1 Nov 2022 · 1 min

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A short spoken piece advising that 'matching energies' does not create real connection in dating or relationships. The speaker argues that matching someone's lower emotional energy sacrifices boundaries; instead, one should state needs for emotional safety, wait for the other person to 'level up,' and let them go if they do not.

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Hey, girl, I want to talk about matching energies, because I hear so often. Okay. If you're going to do that, I'm going to do that. Right? Matching energies does not actually create connection in dating and in love and other relationships. If we're being honest. Right. When you are here and the other person is here, when you match their energy, you go down to where they are. No, girl, you stay there and you set the boundary. People who match energies don't have boundaries. You say, hey, this is what I need in this relationship, to feel good and to feel emotionally safe. And then we wait for their response to your boundary. If they level up, great. If they don't, we gotta let them go. Yeah. That's what this work is all about. So if you want to learn how to strengthen your boundaries and to be okay when they don't level up, please follow, comment and take a listen to my podcast, because that will help you amazingly as well. Be well, my loves. Bye.