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Nat Turner

Name: Nat Turner
Uploaded: 2022-11-02T12:30:23+00:00
Duration: 1 min 22 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short YouTube clip titled "Nat Turner" featuring a brief exchange: Zainab Johnson references Nat Turner as an anecdote about risking danger to see…

2 Nov 2022 · 1 min

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Short YouTube clip titled "Nat Turner" featuring a brief exchange: Zainab Johnson references Nat Turner as an anecdote about risking danger to see someone she loves. Anwar White responds with relationship advice: timely texting/initiating from a partner reflects readiness for a healthy relationship and recommends evaluating "between-date behavior" (BDB) because most relationship communication happens while partners are apart.

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Turner. He was a slave. He snuck out of his house at midnight knowing he could be shot or hung from a tree just to lay eyes on a woman he loves. And you can't return my text?
Hey girl, I love this comedian and she's an amazing actress on the Amazon Hit upload. She makes a really great point. If a guy can't initiate texts and answer you timely, he is not your guy. Let's not agonize over that. Sometimes women can think that because this guy is not initiating texts or responding well that it has something to do with your lovability. It has absolutely nothing to do with your loveability and everything to do with his inability to be ready for a healthy relationship that requires healthy communication. At the end of the day, I want us to be heavily evaluating what I call BDB between date behavior. Why? Because when you're In a relationship, 80 to 90% of the time it's going to be you all separated and how you communicate through that separation. So many of us when we're dating, a guy will focus on what it looks like when we're actually on the date with him, and that will cloud our judgment. I want us to do a different way for a different result. I hope this helps.