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Hey, girl. So I was looking at this video and I was like, oh, my God, I have to stitch this video. Because this is exactly how most women date and shout out to the mom who didn't freak out and go ballistic because this boy spilled everything. Lord knows that's not how we grew up. But let me just say this. Most of us will start and stop and dating, and it is because something small happens and we get triggered, and then we want to throw it all away just like this little boy did. And what happens is when you start and stop in dating, you will kill all of your dating momentum and all of your results. Because every time you stop, you literally, when you start again, you're starting from zero. People think they're just going to start where they left off. No, girl, you start from zero. So every time you quit, you stop. You start back from zero. I know that if you go three straight months of consistency, you're going to get some momentum in your dating life. Take two to three days off, a weekend off each month, but go three straight months and you'll have some momentum, you'll have some results that will help you tremendously. Here's what I know as a dating coach. My name is Anwar White. If you don't know as a dating coach, who's done this for 13 years, who gets women into relationships every week, at least I think there were three women this week, three women last week, and a woman this upcoming week that has just moved in with her guy. Here's what I know. So two things need to happen when you're on your dating journey. If you are to get your guy, one, you let go of the triggers. If you're still like, oh, my God, I can't believe you did that. I can't believe you said that. You're getting way too triggered, mama. We got to heal that trauma, right? Because if you don't, what will happen? You'll get into a relationship, and. And in a relationship, everything is times 10. So you will get triggered and your traumas will come up and you'll create disconnection and break up the relationship. That's number one. So we have to heal that so that anything that these guys say or do don't mean anything. Water off a duck's back. Number two, we have to get to the point where we really can take these guys or leave them. Like, we don't really care. Like, to the point where you're thinking to yourself, should I actually be dating? Because I actually don't care if you're at that point. I know that you're one or two months away from getting your guy. It.

Comes to pass every time. So if you find yourself starting and stopping and things are coming up for you, please understand we have to heal that trauma. And if you want some help with that, definitely book a call with me so I can help you work through that, so that you can get your person, get your guy. Because you got to be in the arena, you got to be in the game to be actually scoring and winning. And I want to make sure that you're not taking yourself out because of any traumas that you may have. I hope this helps.