Anwar White delivers a short YouTube dating-advice clip (Feb 3, 2024) advising women—particularly Black women—not to center on one man. He introduces his method called “Olympic dating” (maintain a gold, silver, and bronze prospect) to diversify one’s “love portfolio,” protect emotional health, and stay empowered as the chooser/CEO of one’s love life. The clip uses informal, metaphor-rich language (investment portfolio, CEO vs. intern) and ends with a coaching call-to-action.
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Girl, one of the biggest scams I see that women go through when it comes to dating is how they've been conditioned to date. And it's all about focusing on one guy. Now, you see this in Disney movies, you see this in rom coms and Hallmark movies. And here's the thing. Anytime a woman wants to do something different and date multiple guys, she's given the scarlet letter and, you know, labeled a whore or a slut. Here's the guys have been doing this for centuries. So, girl, this is about wanting to be chosen instead of doing the choosing. And as your fairy godbrother, I want you to do it differently. So I want you to do what I call Olympic dating. I want you to have a gold medalist, a silver medalist, and a bronze medalist. And you cannot stop dating until you have your podium filled. Why is this? Well, here's the thing, girl. The best investors have always diversified their portfolios for the best returns, and I want you to do the same. I want you to diversify your love portfolio so that you don't become broke or broken, okay? Now this also protects your heart because, girl, if Paul is not doing what he's supposed to do, girl, you need to talk to Nigel and you need to talk to Anthony, right? So that you can keep your dating life fluid and always moving. Most girls start and stop because they're focusing on one guy and it kills all of their dating momentum and all of their dating results. I want you to do it differently. I want you to be the chooser instead of waiting to be chosen. And being the chooser is feeling empowered in your dating life and being the CEO of your life. A lot of women are acting like the interns wanting to be chosen and doing the hard work to hopefully get that internship and that full time position at the end of the summer. Don't do that, girl. That's the guy's job. They're supposed to prove themselves to be a worthy boyfriend for you, not the other way around. If you want to learn how to be in your CEO era in your love life, definitely book a call with me. I hope this helps.
