A short YouTube advice clip (by Anwar White) encouraging Black women to expand their dating pool beyond only Black men. The speaker argues that restricting to Black men eliminates 87% of potential partners and frames openness to other racial groups as increasing chances of finding love; psychological reasons (seeking father-figure validation) are suggested as part of the explanation.
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Hey, girl. I want to talk to you about dating outside of your ways. If you're a black woman, then you've probably been conditioned not to do so. But here's what I want to offer to you. If you are in America and you are just dating black men, you are eliminating 87% of the men out there that could be your potential partner. I want us to open our net up. I want us to give ourselves the biggest possibility for love, even if it doesn't look like the way that you imagined it. And here's the thing. A lot of black women are conditioned to focus on a black man because we are chasing our father's love. Either he was emotionally or physically absent. And we think that by having a black man that might actually heal and fill the void. It doesn't open yourself up to the man that is going to treat you like a queen. And that might be black, white, or even Puerto Rican. Anyway, I hope this helps you follow for more tips on dating differently to get different results.