Scam How Women Date

Anwar White argues women are taught to focus on one partner while men date multiple people. He recommends women practice "Olympic dating" with multiple prospects and act as the CEO of their love lives instead of waiting to be chosen.
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What's a scam that's become so normalized that we don't even realize it's a scam anymore? How women are taught to date. Now, hear me out. Most of the time, women are actually conditioned and programmed to only focus on one man at a time. We see it in Disney movies, we see it in rom coms. And if a woman tends to do something else and date multiple men for some reason, she's given the scarlet letter and considered a slut and a whore. Where at the same time, these men have been doing it for centuries. Dating multiple women at the same time. Now this is about wanting to be chosen instead of doing the choosing. And we have to learn how to do it better, right? I tell all of my dating clients we need to be Olympic dating. You need to have a gold medalist, a silver medalist, and a bronze medalist at all time, right? This is how we, what I say, diversify our portfolio, right? Even the best interest index funds and hedge funds have a diversified portfolio. None of them would just invest in one stock. So I don't want you to invest in one man. This also protects your heart, right? And if one guy's not working out, you got two other guys to continue to date and figure things out. And you're not focused on one guy and you haven't put all of your eggs in one basket. This is about, like I was saying before, choosing instead of waiting to be chosen. Now, I always tell of my clients, and I think this is really important, especially for women to hear that they need to be the CEOs of their love lives, right? Many of the women are actually acting like interns, trying to prove themselves so that they can get the job. Let the men actually prove themselves to you. Hope this helps.
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