This content was created by Anwar White. This content was uploaded by Anwar White. This is a YouTube video titled "Should the man love the woman more?" created on December 23, 2024. It features a monologue by a single speaker discussing relationship dynamics, specifically the belief that a man should love a woman more for the relationship to work, and advising against financially supporting family members to maintain personal boundaries.
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JJ. Bae said, do you believe the man has to like the woman more for the relationship to work 100%.
He must like you more and he must love you more. And the reason is, is because he's going to do more for you than you are going to do for him. Everything that you do for him should be in reciprocation of what he has done for you. You. A lot of y' all think that you're playing Sister Act 3 here in the nunnery. You know, giving these guys and doing things for these men without them doing things for you. No, these men have to do for you before you do for them.
Okay?
I need you to understand that and no shade. But I want you using that in all of your relationships, family and friendships. I'm going to tell you something that I told my clients and I'm going to need you all to do what you. What you want with it.
You ready?
Stop giving your family money. You're not their daddy.
If you're giving your family money, you're in your masculine.
It's not your job to take care of your family. It's not your job to take care of other people. If you want to be taken care of.
Someone said, tell my folks that. I'm not going to tell your folks that.
You tell them. Someone said, Just wired 1500, girl. Cancel it.
If you can't set boundaries with your parents or with your family, you won't be able to set boundaries with men.
I already know if you. If you give in money to your family, you probably need to work with me. No Shade.
Okay.
Yeah. Don't give money to anybody because once you're doing that, you're what you're telling yourself couple of things. One.
I have to take care of other people. No.
The guy is gonna take care of you. Right? And ultimately what happens is a lot of us will do that because we think.
This is how I'm going to relate to them. This is how they're going to love me. That might be your definition for love. To love and to be loved. Your future partner.
Is going to be in love with you and you won't have to do a damn thing. And you have to be in the practice of not doing a damn thing to create space for your person.
There's no way that your future person is going to be able to provide for you if you providing for other people.
So if you're doing that, you're not ready. And that's no shade. But you get to do it.
It's not your job.
So I want to offer that whoever is ready to receive.
Someone said, what about siblings? What about them?
