Short YouTube monologue (creator: Anwar White) addressing whether women should approach men. The speaker argues women can approach but that doing so often reduces their perceived value because it makes them seem "too easy"; men are described as hardwired to pursue, and women are advised to consider themselves "prizes" and act accordingly.
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Kayla said, should women approach men? You can, but here's what I want to offer to you. If you approach a guy in his mind, he's already bored of you because you're too easy.
It's like, you know that girl who is in the middle of the dance floor at the dance, and she's going super hard and she just feels like she just needs so much attention that it's like a turn off. That's what happens when you approach men. It's too much. She's trying too hard. And here's the thing. If in his mind, he's thinking, if you have to do this, then you're not the prize. And he wants to be inspired. And actually, men are hardwired to pursue and really to hunt. So you're like taking the game out of it and it becomes not fun anymore and your value goes down. Yeah. So something to think about. You can do whatever the hell you want to, but I think that all of you are prizes and you need to act as such.