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Should women care about a man's look?

Name: Should women care about a man's look?
Uploaded: 2025-01-31T13:01:06+00:00
Duration: 1 min 35 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short spoken YouTube piece arguing that women should prioritize how a man takes care of himself (cleanliness, grooming, habits) and his intellectual…

31 Jan 2025 · 2 min

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A short spoken YouTube piece arguing that women should prioritize how a man takes care of himself (cleanliness, grooming, habits) and his intellectual, emotional, and financial qualities over raw physical attractiveness. The speaker offers a numeric preference scale (looks: 7; intellectual: 10; emotional: 10; financial: 9–10) and uses examples (untidy bathrooms, poor hygiene) to show why self-care predicts how a man will care for a partner/family.

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Should women care about a man's looks? I think that women should care about how a man takes care of himself.
I think that's really important. A lot of women will try to find the prettiest men because they don't feel pretty about themselves. And so they want a pretty man to associate with so that they can feel prettier sometimes. And if that is, if that is hitting you differently, I want you to marinate on that a little bit.
When I say.
That the looks don't actually matter as much. Like, in my mind, the cheat code for me is.
On a scale from 0 to 10, looks a 7, intellectual a 10, emotional a 10, a financial a 9 or a 10.
That's the cheat code.
In my mind how I've seen it. A lot of the girls are trying to go for the nine or 10 guys.
And then get mad when the guy starts acting like the princess.
Yeah, I think you should care about how he takes care of himself because how he takes care of himself is how he will take care of you and the family.
Right. There are a lot of really pretty boys out there that have nasty ass bathrooms.
That literally wash themselves in the shower like this. Boom, boom, boom. Don't even wash their butt because they think it's gay.
So something to think about and consider.