Anwar White argues that men don't approach women as much as they used to, and when they do, they often target people they see as easier marks. He says women should position themselves to start conversations rather than wait to be approached.
Asia said, should I approach guys first? No one seems to approach me in person and I know I ain't ugly. Being approached has actually less to do with your appearance than you would think. That's why, like, most of us will get approached when we're looking a hot ass mess. Actually, you'll. Yeah, you'll get more approached if you look a mess. Right? Why? Because men will approach you because they think that you're an easier target.
That you look like weaker prey, that he won't be rejected by. Right.
Most guys are not approaching women in the same way that they used to. The approach rate is roughly a third of what it used to be. Based on.
You know, we're in a post. Me too environment where post pandemic, like there's a lot of different relationships with. With space between people now. Right. So I'm sharing this with you so that you think, oh, it's not just you. It's actually a cultural thing that has happened.
Should you approach a guy first? No, I don't think so. I don't think you. That you should walk up to some guy in your pimp walk and go a babe. Right. But I do think that we can position ourselves close to guys and start conversations. Right.
Give him a compliment, ask him for help, ask for a recommendation.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
