Anwar White argues women shouldn't ask men out because it tanks his respect level and removes his incentive to pursue. He says men should be expected to do the asking, or the relationship will end up uneven.
Lonnie said, should I ask a guy out or wait for him to ask first? Never ask a guy out.
Don't ask a guy out. When you ask a guy out, his respect level for you goes down to a 0 or a 1. When you ask a man out, then what? What? In his mind, he's like, oh, I got this girl in my pocket, so I'm going to treat her.
When I tell you like you want to wait for them to pursue you.
And engage with those men.
I want you to listen to me. A lot of us are results oriented, and so we just want to get it done. And we don't care how it gets done. As long as the. As long as the numbers are exchanged, as long as. For some women out there that want to talk to somebody on the phone, as long as I'm on the phone chatting with him, that's all that matters. It matters how you get there. And he's got to be able to make it happen. And if he's not doing it now, he won't do it for the rest of your life. And you will have to take on the labor of the. Most of the labor of the relationship. And that gets really tiring really fast, okay?
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
