Should you ask the guy's intention?

Sincere said, girl said, is it okay to ask a man what his intentions are? No. No. Because his answer doesn't matter. And when you ask that question, you lose all your power.

You know that movie Gone Girl? That's what I. That's what I call those girls. Girl, you're already gone. You already lost your power. Why do I say that? I say that because it doesn't matter what his intentions are. It's. It matters what he does, and it matters what you want. And you have to be evaluating these men. You can't. Like, when you're asking what his intentions are, you're giving him all the power, and you're saying, I'm waiting for you to dictate what we should do in this relationship. No, girl, it's 2024. And you get to share with him what you want to do in the relationship.

Because that's the thing that matters. As a woman, you set the pace and the emotional depth of all of your relationships.

And if you're not doing this, then you're not doing your relationships well. Yeah.