A short monologue (YouTube) where the speaker, Anwar White, advises women not to confront men caught lying about relationship status. She argues confrontation merely trains men to lie better and instead recommends leaving—using silence and action as the most powerful responses.
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Kiki said, should I confront a man I found was lying about his relationship status? No, ladies, I want. I want you. I want to express something to you. Everybody wants to have this, like, cheater show moment where you're confronting a man and you caught him as if you were an SVU detective. No, girl, you caught. You know what the t is? Your job is just to leave. Why? One.
If you confront a man, you're telling him that he needs to try harder to hide things from you. And when he does that now he's upping his cheating and lying game. You're going to make it harder for you if you stay with him. You're going to make it harder for the next woman when she's with him. You're doing no one a service except for this man when you confront him.
Yeah, A lot of us want to get into, like, confronting because it triggers like. Like, if you grew up in a household where you were seen and not heard, you want to always have your voice heard. Right? And I want to offer to you that, like, the loudest voice you can have is silence.
The loudest voice that you can have is action.
The loudest voice that you can have is stepping away.
