Anwar White breaks down dating men with kids. He says avoid men with four or more children by different mothers, but one child by one mother is manageable. Many Black and Brown women skip these men entirely because they fear becoming 'another baby mama' and won't be prioritized or cherished.
Okay, let me see what the other questions are. Should I consider a man if he has kids, if he has more than three kids? Let me just say it's four kids with multiple mothers. Then you're about to be in a Nick Cannon, Cam Newton situation. And I would stay against it.
If it's just one mother. Engage. But here's the gag, and here's what I think is really important. A lot of black and brown women don't want to be with guys with kids because they don't want to be another. They don't want to be another baby mama. They all. But the deeper issue here is that there is a neglect wound, and they feel like they won't be prioritized, cherished and given the attention that they need because this man has kids. Right. And that's not necessarily the case for each and every guy out there.