A short spoken segment arguing that one should not take back a partner who cheated. The speaker claims cheaters create ongoing power imbalances and paranoia, suggesting that if roles were reversed the cheated-on partner would act to regain power, making reconciliation unwise.
Tammy said, should you ever take back a cheater? I don't think so. And the reason I say that is because most guys that cheat, if. If the roles were reversed and you had cheated on him, he would always be.
Like, paranoid.
Because he would want to cheat back to gain power. And so when you take back a cheater.
He'S going to be paranoid and he's always going to be thinking that you're going to cheat back to get your lip back, and the trust will have been so low that the foundation of a healthy relationship will not be there.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
