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Should you give up on wanting to be approached?

Name: Should you give up on wanting to be approached?
Uploaded: 2024-04-08T13:09:40+00:00
Duration: 8 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short excerpt from a YouTube monologue (creator: Anwar White) asking whether Black women should give up wanting to be approached. The speaker argues they…

8 Apr 2024 · 0 min

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Short excerpt from a YouTube monologue (creator: Anwar White) asking whether Black women should give up wanting to be approached. The speaker argues they should not give up but notes cultural shifts (post-pandemic, Me Too era) mean many men require extremely clear signals before approaching — described humorously as needing an obvious "green light."

Sincerely, Tahiri said. Should us black cats give up on wanting to be approached?
Not necessarily. But like, in this day and age, it's not the 1950s. A lot of guys are not going to approach you. Not because you're not worthy of being approached, but because we're in a post. Pandemic post. Me too. Environmental.
So guys are going to be respectful. Good guys are going to be respectful of your space. They're going to need a major green light. Like, such a green light that it looks like aliens are about to invade the Earth. Girl. That's how green the light needs to be.
You hear me? For them to want to come. So the thing is, black hats don't really give a lot of green lights. So your work is probably to learn how to. How to, you know, give that green light. Girl.