Zaza Plu argues against giving a situationship a chance when he's pursuing you. He says the pursuer usually wants to keep things casual, not commit, and has already locked you into a situationship role he won't change.
Zaza Plu. Should I give a situationship a chance if he's chasing me? No.
Most of the time they're chasing you because they just want the situationship. They want to keep the situationship going. Or there's. There's been some loss of steam in the situationship, so he wants to get it back to. So, like, for example, maybe you're only hooking up with him once every two weeks, and he wants to hook up with you two to three times a week, like you guys did at one point.
But he's already put you in a category you can't get out of it.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
