Anwar White compares taking back an ex to Cesar Millan's dog training: ignoring their excited return teaches them they can leave and come back whenever they want. You lose credibility, weaken your boundaries, and damage your judgment. His rule: your future husband will never be your ex.
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Sharon said, should I go back to an ex?
So I was, you know, I'm like, so here's. Have you guys ever listened to.
Cesar Millan? He's like the dog expert.
Well, he was. He was talking, you know, how he gets the girls and the boys together, the dog owners, and he was talking about how.
When you. When you're like, you know, home and. Or when the dog is home and you are coming into the home, the re interaction you are teaching the dog, like, usually dogs will jump up and down and really, like, you know, really give you a lot of life. When you come into the home and he's saying, no eye contact. Don't say anything, and ignore them.
Because you are literally teaching these dogs that it is okay for them to act a fool during re engagement. So I want to share the same advice with you. That anytime that you re engage with an ex, you're literally telling him that whatever broke us up doesn't matter.
And that he can come in and out of your life when he wants to. When you don't have those boundaries, you've lost all credibility and all of your power. He will not change. People don't change. I wish they did. They don't.
The other thing that will happen, which I think is far worse, is that when someone comes back into your life and you let them, you tell yourself, because most of the time, women actually break up with men. 70% of the time, you tell yourself that I can't trust myself and that my decisions are flawed in nature.
So it's hard for you to. It will be harder for you to make decisions in the future. That is the thing that kills you, girl, because then you're going to be second guessing every little thing that you do in your love life after that. Here's what I want y' all to know.
Your future husband will never be your ex.
And that's on. Period. That's on. Exclamation point, actually.
