Anwar White argues against taking an ex back after disrespectful behavior. Letting them return erodes your credibility, signals you'll tolerate the same treatment again, and masks a false desire for control you actually give away.
Ladybug said, Should I let him spin the block after being disrespectful? No, no, no, no, no. Because then your credibility is lost. And now he knows he can do whatever he wants with you, and you'll always take him back. You play yourself when you do that. A lot of us take our exes back because we feel like we want to gain control over them, right? So you taking him back is really you wanting to let him know that you are still in control, but in reality, you're not when you do that.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
