Anwar White says no, don't lose weight before dating. Men don't care about stretch marks or the details you obsess over. Be confident in your body now instead of waiting to change it for someone else.
Prime said, should I lose weight first, then date?
No, never.
Never. The gag is that if you're a curvy girl, be a curvy girl. Relationship ready. Men, they don't care about that.
They don't. They don't. You care more than they do.
You got those tiger stripes on your butt, girl. You got a little. What do they call it? Fupa? Girl, they're calling it an apron, something. Now he gonna love all of it and more.
And no shade. Girl, you know what the guys say? This is between you and me. They say, yo, stuff is the best.
Don't change it. Don't change a thing.
And if you think that you're too big to get a man, I want to remind you that every woman on my 600 pound life, they always got a man. Always.
So if you're choos, something doesn't matter. You should be having three men. If the 600 pound life can have one, you can have three.
And that's big girl math.
Oh, Lord, girl, take me down. Maybe I need to go to bed.
Yeah.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
