A YouTube monologue by Anwar White titled 'Signs that a man is DL?' (Feb 20, 2025) listing many controversial, anecdotal stereotypes associating different ethnicities, behaviors, or life experiences with being 'DL' (down low — secretly gay or bisexual). The speaker offers dating-safety framing, claims certain groups target specific women, and provides broad numeric claims (e.g., '20 to 50%').
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Signs a man is DL. Great question. What kind of man are you into? Are you into a black man? If you're into a black man. I was going to do a video about this. If you're into black men. Black men. If they have mommy issues, if they hate their mom or they're too close to their mom, they're probably DL. If they wear sweats or pants over shorts, they're probably DL. They're literally subconsciously, like, holding their D in their pants because if they don't, they're gonna go wild.
If they're just talking about butt, butt, but, but, but, but butt, then they don't care who's attached to that butt. They just want butt Beavis and butt heads. Okay.
I'm trying to think. If he's black and he's into anime, he's probably DL. No shade.
If he's Hispanic in DL, he's probably an alcoholic and he probably has daddy issues. He either hates his dad or his dad hates him.
If he has been in prison for more than three years or more, he's probably DL. If he's in the Navy, he's probably DL. He's literally.
Sleeping on top of each other and they're on a cruise on a honeymoon every day.
If he is Indian or Middle Eastern, if he is choosing your clothes or trying to control the what you're wearing, he's probably DL. He's playing Barbies with you.
If they. If they're Indian or Middle Eastern and they like, like rough sex.
He'S probably DL.
He's hate effing you because he hates himself.
If you're having a conversation with someone from the Middle east or.
India and it goes from 0 to 100 sexual very quickly, he's probably DL repression tea.
If he's in the Middle east and Indian and he works out, he's probably DL.
If he. If he's East Asian. The way that I try to figure out if he's DL is.
If he was chubby as a kid. If he was chubby as a kid and now he works out because he's doing that revenge bod t. He was probably DL. He was eating. Trying to eat the gay away.
Yeah.
If he is.
If he is.
In sports.
You know how I figure out if he's like, in professional sports? Because I. I chatted with a couple of DL people that are professional athletes.
If he's the cheerleader of the team.
Or he is.
Like the loner that nobody talks to, he's the DL1 on the team.
Okay.
If DL means down low, that means he's gay. Gay girl, gay.
If he.
If he's a pastor and he likes to mentor one on one with boys, he's DL. That's how the pastors do it. Predator T. Okay, All Dominicans and Italians are bisexual.
Off the gate. If he's Lebanese, he's gay.
Okay?
If.
If he is a rich white man and he's into kinky stuff in the bedroom and he does drugs that are luxurious in nature.
He'S. He's not even DL. He doesn't care. He's so rich that he doesn't even have a label.
Okay? If he's a poor white.
Because there's a ton of them.
He'S an alcoholic. Generally he'll have a beard because he's hiding something from his. He's hiding. And then he spends more time with his friends than he does his girlfriend. He's DL.
Okay.
Do you have any more questions?
All Italians are bisexual.
Got it. And if you don't believe me, ask any of your gay friends. They'll tell you that you. If they're in the club at 2am and they see one of these guys, they know that they can have them.
Someone said, who's not DL? I don't know, girl. I don't know. But I will tell you this. More and more men are watching Corn with a P and it is making them.
Very DL.
Because they're not looking at the. The titas, they're looking at the D.
Men are.
Physically attracted to each other.
But sexually attracted to women.
Africans, okay? Nigerians. If he's gone to boarding school, he's probably DL. That's where they have their first sexual experience. And oftentimes it's with a boy.
Most of the DL guys that are Nigerians and don't let them put any sort of hexes on me, okay? So pray for me. All of it. Now.
If they generally have a girlfriend, they're generally married. And.
If they treat their wives or girlfriends like they don't like them or like, if they're walking to like a place and they are pretending like they're strangers, he's DL.
Well, I'm saying that because, you know, anytime that I talk about Nigerians, like, they always try to put a hex on me. I have to ask my grandmother to, you know, pray for me and to give me a protective layer because they will come for me spiritually.
Yeah.
So someone keep on saying, what about the Greeks, girl? Read a history book.
Jamaicans, they are not DL.
They are killers.
In and outside of the bedroom.
Someone said Asian men. I already said Asian men. Generally, they're chubby when they're growing up because they're eating the gay away.
So ask an Asian man, were you chubby growing up? And if he says yes, and then he's not chubby now.
DL.
Yeah, I had time today, honey.
And the reason why I'm talking about DL men is because DL men are narcissists. They're dangerous. And they will.
They will try to target.
Women with children. They will try to target darker skinned women. They will try to target bigger women. They will try to target women. Women that are in their masculine energy.
So I'm really trying to put you up on game so that you are not stuck with some DL guy. DL means down low. Means he's secretly gay or bisexual.
Okay.
Yeah, a lot. And you don't have to believe me. You can just talk to any one of your gay friends. They'll tell you that a good 20 to 50% of them are hooking up with guys that are on the DL.
Because these guys, they just want to get it in.
They want to get in.
Okay.
I hope this is helpful for you.
Because I really want y' all to be protected this year and beyond.
