Single Black Women - Non-Black Men Are Checking For Youuuuuu!!!! #blackdating #blackgirldating #blac

Hey, girl. I have a special message for the single black women out there. These non black men are checking for you.

They're checking for you. White, Hispanic, Indian, East Asian, Middle Eastern. They're all checking for you. And I know you might think that they're not. They are. Sometimes we think that just because they weren't checking for us in high school or college that they're not checking for us now. They are checking for you. So what I want you to do is when you see them, when you're engaging with them, give them the green light, right? Give them eye contact. Look at their feet. See if they're pointing toward you. If they're pointing toward you, then you know that they are checking for you. Why aren't they approaching you? They're not approaching you because they have the idea that your eyes are only for black men. And they're not wrong. When I look at the data, what it tells me is that only 12% of black women are dating and in relationships interracially versus 24% of black men. These men are looking outside of you. So I don't understand this toxic loyalty toward them when they're not even checking for you. Here's what I want to offer to you, and this is why I'm having this conversation with you right now. 70% of black women are unmarried. This has to change. And part of this change is opening up your net and checking for these non black men. Because as you've heard me say already, they are checking for you. And I want to make sure that you find love. I don't care what it looks like. I care that you get it and that it feels good to you.