This content was created by Anwar White. This content was uploaded by Anwar White. This is a YouTube video titled '#singleblackfemale #blackgirltiktok #singleblackfemale #singlelatina #blackwomenoftiktok #blackgirlm' created on March 21, 2023. It features a monologue by a dating coach for black and brown women, discussing the importance of setting boundaries in relationships and recognizing toxic behavior patterns.
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You want McDonald's or Burger King for dinner? Because I'm tired. OMG. I know that this is how so many black moms apologize. And I just want to offer that it's toxic and narcissistic. So when you ask me why am I actually attracting toxic and narcissistic people, it's because you have these lived experiences where you actually create your bonding pattern and your definition of love. And so in our heads, in our brains and our minds and our hearts, we think that people don't have to apologize to us if they just come back to us. That's enough. It's not enough. So as a dating coach for black and brown women, I just want to encourage you while you are dating that you are going to need to set boundaries every step of the way. Some language to help you with that. Hey, that makes me uncomfortable when you do that or that makes me uncomfortable when you say that. Right. His response to your boundary will tell you everything that you need to know about him and if he is okay or not okay to be with. If he, he doesn't apologize and acknowledge your feelings, he's got to be out. We can't continue to accept non boundaried.