YouTube video by dating coach Anwar White explaining a five-level hierarchy women pass through in dating: Level 1 (physiological), Level 2 (safety/financial stability), Level 3 (love/belonging/boundaries), Level 4 (esteem/career but lacking vulnerability/feminine energy), and Level 5 (self-actualized—inner-child healing, balanced masculine/feminine energy, resolved money wounds). The creator invites viewers to book coaching and comment their level; references a podcast episode for more detail.
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Do you know that there is actually a hierarchy of men when you are dating? Hey girl. So last week I did a video about how to evaluate men, understanding that self actualized men will be a level five. And I wanted to come in here and talk a little bit about how do you get to a level five in your dating life? Because you cannot find a self actualized level 5 man unless you are self actualized yourself and at a level five. So I'm going to go through the five levels so, so you can figure out what level you're at. Because as a dating coach I help my clients get to a level five right. So that they can find their self actualized man and they can get into the best relationship of their lives. I have a new podcast episode that goes into much more detail on this on the get your guy coaching podcast. So definitely check that out. But let's get started. Level one, physiological. These are women that are using their body to get what they want. This is not going to serve you. This is going to attract men that are just going to use you for your body. I see a lot of plus size women that are actually at the level one because they are, you know, allowing men to use their bodies in this way. So I don't want you to be there. Level two is all about safety. This is, this is for the women that want to, that are underemployed, that are not employed. If you are there, you should not be dating. You should be getting your money up and you should get stable because you will attract men that will want to financially control and abuse you. Yes, there is the sprinkle sprinkle girl out there dating coach that is talking about taking men for their money. But, but you will attract men that are going to financially control you and I don't want that for you. That's level two. Get stable, get independent so you can come to the table with something. Level three is all about love and belonging. This is about individuals that don't are not connected with family, friends, have really toxic relationships, also find themselves in a lot of situationships because they don't have the boundaries necessary to be in healthy relationships. So if you find yourself in situationships, it's probably because you got to work on your boundaries and you're at a level three. Level four is the esteemed woman, the woman that has the career, the job, travels a lot, but she is lacking the intimacy, the vulnerability as well as she's in her masculine energy and she needs to learn how to be more in her feminine energy to attract the masculine energy. So that's the work that I do with my level fours, Level five. And this is where I get my clients to be. Where she has done the inner healing of her inner child, where she has really worked on her boundaries, her vulnerability, her masculine and feminine energy, as well as any money, wounds and scarcity mindset that's going on when she's there. When she is at her self actualized level 5 self, she is going to be ready to rock this thing out and find her level five man. And if you want to learn how to get to a level five, if you find that you're not at a level five, definitely book a call with me. I can help you with that. Let me know what level you're at in the comments below and I look forward to reading them and commenting on them. Be well, my loves.
