Stitch w/ and Love

Please understand this. Never, ever, ever go see a woman where she's at. Never. I don't care if you lose her. I don't care if you lose her. How you start is how you finish. Far too many times I see women with the mentality of, if he's serious, he should be calling me and I'll ask them, but did you reach out to him? And the answer is no. And some of you may say, well, Nye, why should I have to reach out? Because this is a two way street. We're trying to build something together.

So a lot of male coaches have a lot to say and they're all wrong. As you can tell, many of these male coaches are making you women do more labor and more work, and you don't need to do that. If a man can't come to you on a date, make it easy for you, make it convenient for you, he's not your guy. Your future husband's gonna do that. If you're in a long distance relationship and he can't fly to you, first, he's not your guy. Especially in the first four to six weeks, he's not your guy. Let him go. Now for the second guy who is talking about how you need to initiate communication and conversation, don't do that. Don't call him, don't text him, don't initiate any dates, don't do anything. At least until the first three dates. Why? Because, as you know, because you are a woman who's actually dating right now, most of these guys are not going to be able to do that. And when you start initiating, you're going to create a dynamic where you feel like there's more to the actual courtship than there is. You never want to court a man. A man is supposed to court you and pursue you. Most of these men are in their feminine energy anyway. And if you start initiating things, you're actually going to encourage and attract more feminized men. From my experience, I've been a dating coach for 13 years. Most of you don't want that, so we've got to do it differently.

One thing that I want to mention, because I get a lot of comments and flack, especially from men and some women out there, when what does a gay man know about women dating straight men? As a dating coach that has gotten women into relationships every week for the past 13 years, I will tell you this. Me being a gay man is a strength here because I understand both the male and the female perspective and I'm able to navigate and help my clients actually be able to go through their dating journey without the pitfalls, without with understanding both what the man is perceiving and also I can have an understanding of what they're thinking at the time. So please understand there are really great coaches out there. Some of these male coaches are not going to fully serve you in the advice that they give you. So please watch out. I hope this video helps.