A short transcript of dating coach Anwar White addressing primarily Black and Brown women, advising them to prioritize compatibility over chemistry when choosing partners. He warns that attractive partners often carry instability or narcissism, claims chemistry fades within about 18 months, and urges listeners to focus on long-term qualities that will matter decades later. The clip concludes with a call-to-action to book coaching.
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Oh, my God. You're too pretty to be single, bitch. I fucking know that. It's not my looks, baby. It's my. It's something in here. I'm not like something's mentally fucking wrong with me. I know I'm not ugly.
Girl, you're gonna need to beware of the hot guys. And I know it feels good to be with a hot guy, but I want to let you know many of them are unstable, many of them are narcissists, many of them are toxic. And please understand this. If they weren't, they would be taken by now. Something's going on with him. This original creator who I love, so please follow him, is right about that. For those of you that don't know me, my name is Anwar White. I'm a dating coach for black and brown women. And I'm always here to give you the tea. Now, there's chemistry and there's compatibility. When we are looking at dating and I want us to hyper focus and prioritize the compatibility, compatibility has to be a 9 or a 10. So many of us are focused on the chemistry being a 9 or a 10 that we're actually letting go of the compatibility because it, it feels good. Girl, please understand that these men are like Louis Vuitton bags. It looks really good and you think it's going to. You're going to feel amazing once you have one, but after a while, it's going to wear off and you're going to realize that everybody has a Louis already. I want you to know that chemistry fades within 18 months if you're dating based on chemistry. And if he gives you butterflies and if he's hot, it's going to lead to a disastrous dating life. I want you to think about the things that are going to be important for you 30, 40 years from now. That's how I want you to date, and that's what I help my clients do. If you're interested in learning more about how to do this, book a call with me. I hope this helps.
