This is a short advice monologue (YouTube video transcript) by Anwar White urging women to stop pursuing stereotypical 'alpha' men and instead seek 'Alphabet' men — men who combine strengths of alpha and beta characteristics. White contrasts behaviors: alphas assert control, perform for status, and 'hunt,' while Alphabet men seek consent, collaborate, provide, and organize, producing more balanced, respectful partnerships.
In this society, you have people who believe that an alpha male is a male who can dog and control women. That's. That's a weak. Alpha men are alpha men based on how they handle other men, not how they handle women.
I want to let you know that I want you to stop dating alpha guys. That is not the goal. That is not the flex ladies, and I'm going to tell you why. Alpha men think that they are the prize. And when they want to lead you, it ultimately means that you will have to follow them or chase them while you are with them. As she was saying before, a man that is Alpha is an Alpha for other men. So if you're with an Alpha man, he is going to treat you like one of his men, right, one of his mafiosos, and try to control you. I want you to be with a man that is in his true masculinity, which is very different. I actually call true masculine men alphabets because it's a bit alpha, it's a bit beta, but it's the best of both. So you want to get with Alphabet men. That's what I want for you. And what does that look like? Well, the difference between an Alpha guy and an Alphabet guy is like when you're getting to know him during dating, an Alpha guy will just call you. An Alphabet guy will actually ask you if you're available and then call you. An Alpha guy will just set up a date. And that might sound really good and really great, but an Alphabet guy will ask you, is this a place you want to go to? And get your sign off before actually making the. Making the reservations and setting up all the logistics. When you have an opinion, an Alpha guy will shut it down because it's not his. An Alphabet guy will seek to understand when you see guys out and about, whether it's on vacation or in a restaurant. The Alpha guy will be the guy that is loud and fun and charismatic and probably the center of attention. The Alphabet guy. He's the guy that's organized the trip or organized the time in which these people are going out for dinner. Another thing that I want to offer to you because this is really important, because Alphas are hunters. Alphabet guys are providers, meaning, and many of you all maybe enduring a holiday like Thanksgiving or Christmas. You might have grown up in households where.
All of the women are cooking all day long and the men are not doing anything. Those are alpha guys.
Alphabet guys not only provide the money for the food, but will also help with cooking. So he'll be out on the grill, barbecuing or working with the meat or doing whatever. That's the difference between an Alpha guy and an Alphabet guy. I want you to get with the Alphabet guy. So what am I saying here, ladies? I'm saying here that ultimately I don't want you to get with a Will Smith. I want you to get with a Jazzy Jeff. I know that sounds really weird because so many of us have been conditioned to go for the Will Smiths, but I want you to do it differently. If you want to learn how to do this a little bit more, definitely book a call with me, but let me know in the comments. Have you always gone for Alpha guys?
