A short YouTube talk by dating coach Anwar White offering a concise dating strategy for women: prioritize partners who are mid in physical attractiveness but high in intellectual and emotional qualities (‘PIE’). He argues these mid-physically men will pursue, support, and be better long-term partners, cautions against seeking very attractive or ‘oogly’ men, and ends by inviting feedback.
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Girl, I think I've cracked the code on dating, and I wanted to share it with you because I know that when you actually have this cheat code, you're going to thrive in dating and you're going to have successful marriages. Okay? So hear me out. Now, I tell my clients all the time as a dating coach for 14 years, but also as your fairy godbrother, that I want you to evaluate men based on pie. Physical, intellectual, and emotional. Now hear me out, girl. You're going to have to date the mid guys. Mid physical, but top in everything else. Intellectual and emotional. That is the cheat code, girl. That is how you are going to get your husband. Many of y' all are trying to date the hot guy to make yourselves feel pretty, and that's not gonna do it. Why? Girl, the hot guy is not it one. He thinks that his chon chan punani is better than yours, and he thinks that he's the prize. And so he will never pursue you. And it's competitive to get him. 80% of the women out there are trying to get him. So he. He's always going to have other women chasing him and he's always going to get attention everywhere you go. Now, I don't know about you, girl, but that would breed a lot of insecurity for me. And I know for many of you all, it would be the same. Date the mid guy physically, but top intellectually and emotional. Why? The mid guys are going to work hard for you. They are going to pursue you. They are going to do things for you. And if a man truly loves you, he will have to do more for you. And no shade, girl, the mid guys put it down, girl. They're hitting the walls, girl. Examples of mid guys, nerds, short kings. The mid guys are giving it and it's less competitive to get them right. Why am I saying this? And I'm hearing you already, ladies, I tried the mid guys. It doesn't work. They treated me bad. No, girl, you tried the mid guy who is mid in every category, not just mid. Physically, you're going to have to really evaluate the intellectual and the emotional quotient to make sure that you're getting the perfect mid guy to be your husband, okay? Because you got to be the pretty one. He can't be prettier than you. That doesn't make sense. It's not natural. Now, some of you girls out there, no shade. Are going for the oogly guys and you're over course correcting to try to get more control and to feel like you have a lot of guys in your roster don't do that because the Oogly guys know that you are insecure and they know that they are not in your your sphere. They will treat you worse than the Hawkeyes will. Beware, though, and I want to say this with a lot of caution, don't sleep with the Oogly guys. Because no shade, they got the best D girl out there. That's why all the hobosexuals will always have a place to live, because they're putting it down and you might get dematized. Yeah. Anyway, let me know if this is the cheat code and if I'm spilling tea or if I'm totally wrong here.
