Anwar White compares grocery shopping while hungry to dating while lonely. Both lead to bad decisions. He argues you need to be satisfied with yourself first.
Oh, my God, girl, have you ever gone grocery shopping completely starving and you, like, buy so many different things because everything looks good, but you're really just trying to quell this hunger pain? Well, it's the same for dating and relationships. If you are going into it so lonely and trying to, like, minimize that, you are going to be putting all of these men into your basket because you think that that is going to make you feel good, when in reality, what you need is eat before you grocery shop. And that's what I do with my clients. We eat honey and we eat an amazing meal at an amazing restaurant. And it's called doing the work. And once we do that, then they are ready to actually grocery shop. And what do my clients do? They order. They order in. They uber eats with the dessert. They don't do any of the work. And if you want to learn how to do that, DM me and we can talk about how to make that happen for you.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
