Anwar White, a dating coach for women of color, breaks down which apps work for Black women and which to skip. She recommends Match, OkCupid, Coffee Meets Bagel, Hinge, and Bumble depending on your age and city, while warning against Tinder, eHarmony, BLK, and others. She says 85% of her clients find their best relationship within six months of her program.
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Hey, girl. My name is Anmore White. I'm a dating coach for women of color, specifically black women. And I wanted to actually talk to you a little bit about the best and worst dating apps in 2023 for Black women, specifically, because it changes year after year. So, for example, in the pandemic, Hinge was killing it. Now, Hinge is not anywhere where it needs to be. So I want to go through the apps, the worst ones and the best ones, and we'll go from there. So the worst ones don't be on Tinder, girl. That's for 25 and younger. And if you want to be, you want to hook up, you want to be objectified, go on Tinder. But many of you don't want that eharmony. Don't do it. It is racism. Clothed in a crucifix, girl. Don't do it. Plenty of fish. That is for the catfish of the world, literally and figuratively. The bottom feeders as well as they will catfish you on there. Be okay. Don't do it. BLK has a lot of those guys that are, you know, those cousins that you don't really talk about or talk to, they're on blk, so you don't want to go in there. What else? Raya and the League, super elitist, super racist. They're not checking for you if you're a black girl. No shade. What else? I'm trying to Facebook dating. Don't do that. The men on Facebook dating are not intentional. They're not really looking to date. Now for the actual apps that I like, I love Match, especially if you're 35 and over. I love OkCupid, and it's especially good if you are an intellectual snob and a little quirky or nerdy. And then I love coffee meets Bagel. Now, these three are really great, but it also means that you have to open up and date everyone, black and non black men. The two dating apps that are city specific are Hinge and Bumble. I didn't really love Bumble before, but in 2023, a lot of people have been on Bumble. So I like Bumble for certain cities. Seattle, San Francisco, Bay Area, Austin, New York. Because a lot of the tech guys are there, the engineers, and they need a little bit of a nudge. So if you want an engineer or an accountant, they'll be on Bumble. I like Hinge, but I only like Hinge on certain cities. Like, I call them cities. No shade to people that live in cities. Indianapolis, Milwaukee. Right. Some of those smaller cities, those hinges really good on those specific cities. Now, here's the thing. I love apps because you get to talk to thousands of people with your fingertips. But it's not about the apps. Dating is about the woman that you become, and that's the work. When it comes to actually doing this work, it's just a medium. And that's why my clients do so well. Because not only are we getting on the best apps, but we're also doing the inner work to make sure that they're getting into the best relationship of their life. And that's why 85% of my clients get into the best relationship of their lives in my six month program. So if you're interested in that, definitely book a call. But otherwise, keep it cute.
